Almost every client I work with comes in struggling with communication—it’s the #1 issue couples bring to therapy. The good news? These skills can be learned. In this crash-course, I walk you through 81 practical tips for before, during, and after tough conversations: what to say, how to say it, how to truly listen, and what to do when things get heated. Whether you’re navigating a big conflict or just want to feel more connected day to day, this guide will help you and your

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Taking a timeout can be a helpful tool when dealing with conflict in your relationship. Here are a few tips for taking timeouts successfully: 1- Know when you need a timeout. What are the signals in your body that you’re starting to get overwhelmed (e.g. sweaty palms, flushed face, muscle tension, rapid heartbeat)? As soon as you notice your signal it’s time to call a timeout because; once you’re overwhelmed you won’t be able to think or communicate clearly. 2- Voice your n